5 Tips for Parents of an Introverted Child

There's no denying that we live in an extroverted world. Being parents of an introverted child can be tough if you don't understand what your child needs. Kids don't understand themselves (most adults too!). Your kid needs you for guidance, so you have to go the extra mile to find out their personality type and act accordingly. Most extroverted parents of introverts who don't get why their kids act a certain way end up pushing them to be more social or slam them with more activities than they can take, which means no alone time or simply time to recharge. Some even keep sending a message to the child that the way they feel about social situations or being comfortable with only one/two friends is never enough, that something always needs to be changed to act more normal. This affects their self-confidence as they grow up. You need to be aware not to fall into these traps. If you notice that your kid is introverted, here are 5 tips for parents of an introverted child:

1- Be Accepting

As a parent of an introverted child, your ultimate gift is acceptance. Yes, kids need physical activity and healthy socializing, but you need to be smart enough to notice when a break is needed. You have to be able to identify which experiences allow for the greatest emotional growth. 

2- Have Them Accept Who They Are

Why not talk to your kid about being an introvert? Try to communicate to them that they are amazing exactly the way they are. Tell them it's okay to want to spend some time at home in a quiet setting just reading as opposed to a big event. Share with them your own personality traits and how people can be different even within a family. They will thank you for it when they grow up. 

3- Let Them Make Their Own Social Choices

Allowing your introverted kid to make his/her own choices and giving them enough space to do so, including wanting to broaden social circles, will help tremendously. It means they won't get that dreaded feeling that they are not living up to your expectations.

4- Embrace Their Strengths

Being an introvert means your child is somewhat restraint. You have to know that probably means they will make decisions after great thought. Your child will observe first before joining in on a game or social situation; they are simply taking it all in to make an informed decision. You should be proud. Furthermore, introverts tend to be comfortable with close family and friends, which means your kid will turn to you for any form of support when needed. They have a vivid imagination too and you should use that to help them learn and be creative.

5- Provide the Chance for Them to Pursue Their Interests

It's very important that you provide the means for your introverted child to express their thoughts and feelings their own way. Most introverts have a broad range of interests. These interests manifest themselves slowly when we are kids. Whether it's writing, reading, drawing, coloring, or crafting (the list is endless), the best thing you can do is invest in these interests because it's their treasure. It's how they release negative energy.

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Written By: Amal Ghali