4 Reasons Why Introverts Should Try Solo Traveling

The idea of solo travel can be quite daunting to us introverts. Talking to strangers and meeting new people in unfamiliar territory are the basis of solo travel, so there are a lot of reasons to scare introverts away. Anything outside of our comfort zone is intimidating at first, but once we pluck up the courage to step outside our bubble, there's no going back. Here are 4 reasons why every introvert should try solo traveling:

 1- It Helps You Get Out of Your Head
We introverts tend to enjoy living in our heads. Our thoughts are our sanctuary. Our inner world is perfect for us. That means that if we are given the choice between staying in or being out there experiencing the world, we'll be happy with the former. There's nothing wrong with that, but a balance is needed. Traveling gives you the opportunity to step outside your head for a while and take in new experiences that force your thoughts in different directions. You get to do that on your own terms when you're traveling on your own.

 2- You're in Control
Introverts can feel overwhelmed while traveling in a group simply because someone else is making all the plans. There's nothing more stressful to us than being forced to visit somewhere we don't want to go or being rushed when we're looking to spend more time with our thoughts taking in the beauty of a destination. Solo traveling means everything is done at our own pace. 

 3- You Get to Decide When to Socialize
Small talk! It's a nightmare for introverts. Of course, it depends on the people we are with, but traveling in large groups means small talk is never-ending. We end up wanting a vacation from the vacation! Contrary to popular belief, introverts like people and getting to know them, and really connecting on a deep level. Traveling alone means you can socialize when you feel like it. The good news is that you'll probably meet like-minded individuals.

 4- Solo Travel Builds up Your Confidence
There's nothing introverts need more than extra confidence. The world has taught us that we shouldn't be proud of exactly who we are and we need to break that cycle. Being on your own in a foreign country and being responsible for your own safety and itinerary will do wonders for your confidence, trust me! 

 Traveling solo is an experience everyone should try, but you shouldn't depend on it in all your travels. Being with family or friends while experiencing a new place is rewarding in a lot of different ways. Create a balance that works for you. If you go on a group trip and require some time to recharge, here are a few tips on Dealing with an Introvert Hangover. 

 By: Amal Ghali

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